If you're unsure of what you want, you'll end up with a lot of things you're unsure of ~ Vex King
Author Vex King is point on, in his book "Good Vibes, Good Life" when he talks about being SURE of what you want (having standards). As the saying goes, if you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything or as Vex put it, you'll end up with a lot of things you are unsure of.
So, is there anything in your life right now you're unsure of ? Do you want to end up with things (whether person, place or thing) you don't need? If not, let's get clear! What brings you joy (not happiness, JOY)? What are your deal breakers? It's called a Must have List! And if that person, place or thing don't make/meet the list, toss it!
Then at your next opportunity, I encourage you to pick up a copy of "Good Vibes, Good Life" by Vex King and follow him @vexking. It's a MUST Read.